Counselling for Couples
The decision has been made, the marriage is over. But the high emotional climate is preventing you both from making the transition from married to single in the graceful way you had intended. Boundaries are blurred as the symptoms of grief emerge; you no longer know who you are or how to define yourself, and you find yourselves slipping into old patterns of communication that no longer serve.
Divorce is stressful and can wreak havoc on the lives and emotions of all involved. Good intentions of "doing it the better way" often fly out the window as we get caught up in power struggles with our soon to be ex-spouses around custody issues, child support, and who gets to keep the cottage. Our judgment becomes clouded and we react rather than respond to difficult situations that we are presented with. We point our fingers in blame at the other party, denying our own role in the break up of the marriage.
Understanding of the dynamics of the relationship and ownership of our responsibility is key to closing the door on the old life and stepping gracefully into a new life. Awareness of our patterns allows us to change them and not repeat the mistakes of the past.
Couples divorce counselling is for you if:
- You and your spouse are committed to finding some peace throughout and beyond the separation process.
- You both desire greater understanding of the dynamics at work in your relationship.
- You each are willing to take responsibility for your own happiness.
- You have children together and want to put their best interests first.
Yes, there is life after divorce! Invest in your happiness and in the happiness of your children. |
